Embed Windows Media Player

I need to create a link to a pop up page with an embedded Windows Media
Player and a wmf file.

I can make the page, but when the link executes it also brings up the media
bar in ie 6 and autoplays the movie in both the pop up and the media bar.

In Mozilla 1.7.1 it opens the pop up and windows media player and plays both
at the same time also.

Can I get the file to play in the pop up window only and not have to ask the
visitor to the site to butcher their settings? Is this possible?

How do I do this? Thanks in advance for your help.

Below is an example of the Media Player code in the popup

<OBJECT ID="MediaPlayer" WIDTH=239 HEIGHT=231
CLASSID="CLSID:22D6f312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95"
STANDBY="Loading Windows Media Player components..."
TYPE="application/x-oleobject"
CODEBASE="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.
cab#Version=6,4,7,1112">

<PARAM name="autoStart" value="True" />
<PARAM name="filename"
value="http://www.mysite.com/Images/Lessons/Video/bend.wmv" />

<EMBED TYPE="application/x-mplayer2"
SRC="http://www.mysite.com/Images/Lessons/Video/bend.wmv"
NAME="MediaPlayer"
WIDTH=239
HEIGHT=231></embed>
<EMBED></embed>
</object>